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Obituaries I Distinct Funeral Services I Southland I NZ Leave a tribute View Service Sheet Shields Print Page Bernard Ralph ( Bernie) Saturday, 28 April 1945 Born: Passed: Thursday, 21 December 2023 Beloved Husband of Barbara, peacefully at Hospice Southland on 22nd of December. Loved Father and Father-in-Law of Mark and Karen, David and Teresa, Rachel and Michael, Karen and Simon. Dearly loved Grandad of all his Grandchildren and Great- Grandchildren. Loved Brother and Brother-in-Law. In respect of Bernie's wishes a private service will be held. Messages to 229 Regent St, Newfield, Invercargill, or can be left on Bernie's tribute page. Livestream Please find a link to the livestream below You came into my life Bernie, just after my parents had passed away and managed to fill that rather large void with your guidance, off-beat humour and friendship. What started off as a business relationship blew-up into so much more and losing you now hurts as much as it did my own Father. I will always remember you. Allister Todd allistertodd69@gmail.com Rest in peace, enjoyed working with you, always great banter. Fly high. Thoughts are with the family at this time. Mike Gurney Love and sympathy to all the family May Evans My thoughts are with you all. Our Bernie will be so missed. Lots of love to Barb & the family. Rest in Peace Bernie. Phillipa Montgomery userTribute leaveMessage Share a photo Upload Photo Max File Size 15MB Tick the captcha Submit https://office88868.wixsite.com/distinctv002/obituaries/bernard-ralph-(-bernie)/shields?skipRedirect=true&ssrOnly=true&extendedTimeout=true&debug=false

Obituaries I Distinct Funeral Services I Southland I NZ Leave a tribute View Service Sheet Lal Print Page Michael (Paul) Jai Wednesday, 6 October 1948 Born: Passed: Wednesday, 27 September 2023 Suddenly on 28/09/23 aged 76. Soulmate and best friend of Marilyn. Deeply loved and respected Father and Father-in-law of Joseph and Tania, *Micheal and Shelley, Vijai and Antoinette and Eddie. Adored Grandad of Kristy, Anisha, Jacob, Kane, Izak, Hamish, Connor, Fenton, Dominic, Gabriel, Nicholas and Stella. Messages are to be sent to 58 Arundel Crescent, Invercargill. Livestream Please find a link to the livestream below Thinking of you all at this sad time. Our Deepest Sympathies to the Lal family. Sincerely, Leanne, Lester, Bryce, Kiera and Aidan (Weaver - Myross Bush). Leanne, Lester, Bryce, Kiera and Aidan userTribute leaveMessage Share a photo Upload Photo Max File Size 15MB Tick the captcha Submit https://office88868.wixsite.com/distinctv002/obituaries/michael-(paul)-jai/lal?skipRedirect=true&ssrOnly=true&extendedTimeout=true&debug=false

Obituaries I Distinct Funeral Services I Southland I NZ Leave a tribute View Service Sheet Homer Print Page Eileen Anne Wednesday, 16 December 1931 Born: Passed: Wednesday, 1 September 2021 Peacefully after a short illness at Southland Hospital on Thursday, September 2, 2021. Beloved wife of the late Raymond (Ray). Loved mother, mother in law and friend to Susan and Graeme Clyma, Diane Homer and Chris Terpstra, Chris Homer and Jan Spriggs, Jane and Geoff Gorton, Megan and Vic Haggerty, and Richard Pears. Much loved Nana of Brent, Gary, Amy, Tristam, Calum, Maddy, Samantha, Olivia, William, Loren, and Georgia. Adored Great Nana of Dominic, Connor, Nikita, Finley, Monty, Mila, and Lachie. Loved sister and sister in law of Mary* and Ian Smith*, Joan* and Sid Patton*, Rose* and Denis Fleming*, John (Sonny) and Lesley Broad* Patsy and Pat Meehan*. Special friend and sister-in-law to Cath Strathern and a loved Aunty to all her nieces and nephews. A family service for Anne has been held on Thursday 9th September. Messages to 61 Rosewood Drive, Invercargill. Livestream Please find a link to the livestream below To all the Homer family Deepest sympathy on the passing of your dear Mum Fond memories from Sacred Heart school days Karen Telfer (née Robinson) Our thoughts are with you all at this sad time Anne was a truely lovely lady ,sending hugs Russell, Kim & Anne Broad Please accept my deepest sympathy in the sad loss of your mother. Trish Murray Trish Murray userTribute leaveMessage Share a photo Upload Photo Max File Size 15MB Tick the captcha Submit https://office88868.wixsite.com/distinctv002/obituaries/eileen-anne/homer?skipRedirect=true&ssrOnly=true&extendedTimeout=true&debug=false

Obituaries I Distinct Funeral Services I Southland I NZ Leave a tribute View Service Sheet Blair Print Page Cindy Marree Saturday, 1 May 1965 Born: Passed: Tuesday, 24 May 2022 Died - on the 25th of May 2022 at Southland Hospice. It is with heavy hearts that we share the passing of Cindy Marree Blair, much-loved mum of Luke*, Bridget, Nicole, Kim, Jamie and Samuel. Mum will be resting at 5 Eden Crescent, Invercargill, we welcome you to come to visit and pay your respects during this time. A service for mum will be held at the Southland Crematorium, Saturday the 28th of May at 10.30 am. In lieu of flowers, donations can be left at the service for the Southland Hospice. Livestream Please find a link to the livestream below So sorry to hear of Cindy's passing. My thoughts are with the family today. Pauline Blackley userTribute leaveMessage Share a photo Upload Photo Max File Size 15MB Tick the captcha Submit https://office88868.wixsite.com/distinctv002/obituaries/cindy-marree/blair?skipRedirect=true&ssrOnly=true&extendedTimeout=true&debug=false

Obituaries I Distinct Funeral Services I Southland I NZ Leave a tribute View Service Sheet Ngu Tamangaro Print Page Joan Lorraine Saturday, 13 October 1951 Born: Passed: Saturday, 22 November 2025 Peacefully passed away, surrounded by her whānau, on Sunday, November 23, 2025. Dearly loved wife/Mama of the late Ngu Toru Ngu. Cherished mother of Michael-Shane, Toru, Moeroa and Teremoana. Loved Nanny of all her mokopuna and great-mokopuna. Special thanks to the staff at Rowena Jackson for their care of Mum. Mum is resting at 300 Barrow Street, Bluff. Messages to 300 Barrow Street, Bluff. Livestream Please find a link to the livestream below You were a shinning light, rest easy with the Angels Joan. Arohanui Whanau Donna-lee Sad to hear the passing of Joan, much love to the whanau. Wynetta Fisher Sad to hear Nanny Ngu has passed away, a lovely lady always up for a chat when dropping Tiare at Te Rourou all those years ago. Rest in peace whaea x Mary Kapene userTribute leaveMessage Share a photo Upload Photo Max File Size 15MB Tick the captcha Submit https://office88868.wixsite.com/distinctv002/obituaries/joan-lorraine/ngu-tamangaro?skipRedirect=true&ssrOnly=true&extendedTimeout=true&debug=false

Obituaries I Distinct Funeral Services I Southland I NZ Leave a tribute View Service Sheet Meadows Print Page Arthur Leslie (Arty) Tuesday, 9 September 1947 Born: Passed: Tuesday, 17 September 2024 On Tuesday 17th of September Arty passed away surrounded by family. Dearly loved and cherished husband of Therese. Loved Father of Joseph and Jonathon. Loved grandad Arty of Connor and Sophie. Dearly cherished brother and brother-in-law of Deirdre and Neville Cook, Jane*and Roger Morris, Susan and Keith Kennedy, Gary and Susan Racz, John and Barbara Racz, Blair and Debbie Racz, Edith and Neil*McLean, and Eric Meadows. Loved uncle of all his nieces and nephews. R.I.P You will be so deeply missed. A private celebration of Arty's life has been held. Messages to 226 Main Street, Otautau,9610. Livestream Please find a link to the livestream below To Therese and family, our sincere condolences on the sad loss of Arty. He will be so missed. Take care, Julie and Neil Gough Our sympathy to Therese and family. Always good fun when we visited and played together as kids in Fairfax. Murray Campbell Condolences Therese and Family. Thoughts are with you all at this sad and difficult time. Treasured memories last forever. Kelvin and Monique Our deepest condolences to Therese and family, Arty was a great man. Taught me a lot about weed spraying. Enjoyed having a laugh with him. A true gentleman. Brasso and Carolyn My condolences to Therese and family on the passing of Arthur. Such a shock to learn this. My thoughts are with you all Dave Fletcher Deepest sympathy Therese & Family. Lots of memories from the good old days. Nev and Bev (Perth) Our sympathy to Theresa and family at the sad loss of Arty. You were all kind friends and neighbours to Mum & Dad for many years. Kind Regards, David McKenzie Our Deepest sympathy to you all at this sad time. Our thoughts are with you with fond memories. Blair and Ann Hopcroft My condolences Therese and family. I haven't seen you for some time but memories of good ol' days remain. We had some great times with the Fairfax crowd. Steve Fraser Therese and family, deepest sympathy to you all on the passing of a lovely man. I remember him so well from the Otautau days. Thinking of you all and may your memories help ease the pain. Trish Manson Deepest sympathy to Arthur's family from a long term work colleague. Wally Kennedy Meadows Whanau, May calm be spread around you, may the sea glisten like greenstone and the shimmer of summer dance across your path. Privileged to know Arty, rest easy and thank you for allowing us to be part of your journey in life. Keith and Delwyn Baird Whanau Thoughts and prayers are with you Therese and your family ❤️ Maria Thurlow To all of you, I extend my deepest sympathy at this very sad time. Treasure your memories, and keep Arty close in your thoughts. Sandra McKenzie Sending love to you Therese Joseph and Jonathan and extended whanau. We are privileged to know Arty the awesome husband, Dad, gardener, and all-around great guy. Rest in peace Arty. Kind regards, Levena & Donny Gillies Therese and family, please accept my deepest sympathy in the sad loss of Arty R.I.P 💔 Trish Murray Therese and family, Our sympathy to all in your loss, R I P Arty Keith and Anne White userTribute leaveMessage Share a photo Upload Photo Max File Size 15MB Tick the captcha Submit https://office88868.wixsite.com/distinctv002/obituaries/arthur-leslie--(arty)/meadows?skipRedirect=true&ssrOnly=true&extendedTimeout=true&debug=false

Obituaries I Distinct Funeral Services I Southland I NZ Leave a tribute View Service Sheet McKinlay Print Page Meldrum James aka Paddy, Mel Wednesday, 27 May 1942 Born: Passed: Thursday, 26 June 2025 After a courageous battle, surrounded by his loving family at Peacehaven Iona Wing, Paddy took his fishing rod and headed off into the sunset – forever fishing. Loved son of the late James and Freda McKinlay.* Loved father of Raquel Taylor, Tracey and James Dawson, Maggie and Joe Simmonds. Loved Grandad Mel of Jasmine, Phoenix and Georgia. Brother and brother-in-law to June,* Evenlyn* and Ted Hill,* Kenneth and Alexi McKinlay, and Noel.* Respected and loved uncle and great-uncle to all his nieces and nephews. A friend to many. Special thank you to Peacehaven Rest Home and all their caring staff who looked after Paddy. A service to celebrate Paddy's life will be held on Tuesday, 01 July, at 1 pm at the Southland Crematorium. Donations to Hospice Southland in lieu of flowers. Livestream Please find a link to the livestream below https://vimeo.com/event/5227235 Dad, there’s been so many moments missed, many words unspoken & a lifetime of being a daughter without a father. It’s hard to find the words at this difficult time, but my heart’s full knowing you had a beautiful life with a wonderful family. I was fortunate enough to have met you in our later years & I will cherish the short time we had. May you finally enjoy your never ending fishing adventures from heaven & may your wings shine bright always. Farewell dad. Raquel Taylor There comes a time in every person's life to set aside all your worries, put your feet up and know you've done your duty to the best of your abilities. It has been a real pleasure knowing you Mel, and sharing part of your life with me. So sorry I am not able to be there for your farewell, but my brother Tony and his daughter Sharon will be there representing our family and our special relationship we had together. Fair sailing, my friend, may the wind be always at your back. Dennis R.I.P now uncle Paddy. Thanks for all the times you took me fishing! Still have memories of you asleep on the couch on Xmas days ha. Sorry we can’t be there. Heather & Michael Leahy Heather userTribute leaveMessage Share a photo Upload Photo Max File Size 15MB Tick the captcha Submit https://office88868.wixsite.com/distinctv002/obituaries/meldrum-james-"mel"/mckinlay?skipRedirect=true&ssrOnly=true&extendedTimeout=true&debug=false

Obituaries I Distinct Funeral Services I Southland I NZ Leave a tribute View Service Sheet White Print Page Karen Gaylene (Nee Crossan) Sunday, 31 March 1963 Born: Passed: Wednesday, 6 March 2024 Passed away unexpectedly on Friday the 8th of March aged 60. Dearly loved mother and best friend of Nicole and Clayton, Conrad and Devi and adored nana Kaz of Roman. Loved Wife of Robert. Much loved daughter of Alistair and Heather Crossan. Sister and sister-in-law of Murray, Judy and Paul, and Kevin. Daughter-in-law of the late Derek and Mavora White. Loved sister-in-law of Nicholas, Jane and the late Morrell McKenzie, Theo and Suzanne, Aaron and Cheryl. Loved Aunty by all her nieces and nephews. A service to celebrate Karen’s life will be held at Ascot Park Hotel Invercargill on Friday the 15th of March at 1 pm. Messages to 553 Gorge Road Invercargill Highway.RD 11 Waimatua Invercargill 9877, or to Karen's tribute page. Livestream Please find a link to the livestream below https://livestream.com/accounts72885/karenwhite Thinking of you all at this terribly sad time. I have fond memories of my time in the BNZ with Karen. Look after each other & know you are in my thoughts. 🌷 Robyn Edie An amazing lady gone far too soon It was a lovely service today Thinking of you all at this sad time Sue Urquhart A beautiful service for such a special person. Thinking of you all and treasure those special times. Keri & LIndsay Divett - Wanaka Sending Love and Strength to Karen’s Loved Ones at this Incredibly Sad Time. Deepest Sympathies Deb Falconer So sad, but so many good memories. Karen has been a special friend to Judith and Sandy and always ensured us fella's had a good time too. I'm sure everyone there today will have their own special memories as well. Your life was too short, but so well lived. Nicole and Conrad have so much to be grateful for and in time they will be so pleased to have so much they can look back on and smile. x Jeff So sorry to hear of Karen's sudden passing. Thinking of you all. Marie and Stephen Harrold I will always remember and treasure my time down on the farm with you and your family. We are incredibly sorry and sad to hear of your passing Karen and feel for the ones left behind. Rest in Peace ❤❤❤ Rosalee and Phil xxx I will never forget the good times when you were growing up, your love of horses especially. My deepest sympathy to all your family. Lindsay Bryant May you be at peace, how lucky are you, you can hang with Nana, Uncle Wattie, Aunty Isabel and Uncle Graham - please give Dad a huge hug, plus you get to meet Benjamin ❤️ You can ride your beautiful horses once again and I'm sure Tonka will be there waiting for his turn 🐎 . Sending prayers to all of the family. Xx Miranda Hi Robert, Nicole & Conrad, thinking about you all at this very sad time. Take care of each other 🥰🥰🥰 Paula Bull userTribute leaveMessage Share a photo Upload Photo Max File Size 15MB Tick the captcha Submit https://office88868.wixsite.com/distinctv002/obituaries/karen-gaylene-(nee-crossan)/white?skipRedirect=true&ssrOnly=true&extendedTimeout=true&debug=false

Obituaries I Distinct Funeral Services I Southland I NZ Leave a tribute View Service Sheet Thomas Print Page Kerry Anne Wednesday, 6 October 1965 Born: Passed: Friday, 20 October 2023 Thomas, Kerry Anne (Nee Lyders) Kerry passed away peacefully at home surrounded by her loving family on Saturday 21st October. Dearly loved partner of Barrie Morgan. Loved daughter of Betty and Pete Lyders. Devoted Mum, Mum-in-law, and friend to Danielle and Daniel, Courtney and Simon, Joel and Sean. Cherished Nana to Kaleb, Emelia and Aria and Kerry Cupcake to Meihana. Loved Sister and sister-in-law to Todd and Serena, and Aunty to her nieces and nephews and friend to the Thomas Family. At Kerry's request, a private family cremation has been held. We extend a warm welcome to everyone who has known Kerry to come to a celebration of her life at Ascot Park Hotel on Sunday 29th October at 2 pm and stay on afterwards for Kerry's final shout. In lieu of flowers, cash donations to Conductive Education at Kerry's celebration of life would be greatly appreciated. Messages to 45 Montrose Street Invercargill. Wear mismatched socks if you dare! Livestream Please find a link to the livestream below Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of Kerry. especially thinking of Betty and Pete and Todd and Serena, Such a sad loss. May your memories sustain you all, fondest Regards, Barbara Morrison Barbara Morrison I have fond memories of Kerry from Netball, she was always bubbly and full of fun, she will be sadly missed, my condolences to her loved ones 😘❤️ Sandy Pascoe Bett and Pete,so sorry to read of your loss of Kerry. A life lost too soon. Condolences to you both. . Carolyn and Ken Porteous It is with a heavy heart and a great sadness that I extend my sincerest sympathy on the passing of Kerry. "Time may pass, places change but memories they are forever" Sue Allison Sorry to hear of Kerry's passing, my condolences to you all. Christine Egerton (nee Harvey) Tuatapere Christine Egerton So Sad to hear that Kerry has passed away treasure your memories.She will be deeply missed. Dorreen&Charles Manson Tokanui userTribute leaveMessage Share a photo Upload Photo Max File Size 15MB Tick the captcha Submit https://office88868.wixsite.com/distinctv002/obituaries/kerry-anne/thomas?skipRedirect=true&ssrOnly=true&extendedTimeout=true&debug=false

Obituaries I Distinct Funeral Services I Southland I NZ Leave a tribute View Service Sheet Olde-Olthof Print Page Ferdinand Gerard James ( Fred) Thursday, 26 July 1928 Born: Passed: Thursday, 2 January 2025 Fred passed away peacefully at the Rowena Jackson Retirement Village, Invercargill, on January 3rd, 2025, aged 96. His wife, Margaret, of 72 years was by his side. He is fondly remembered by all his family, his friends, and the many grandchildren and great-grandchildren here and overseas. The family thank all the staff and management of the Rowena Jackson Retirement Village for the care and support of Dad and Mum through this difficult time. A rosary for Fred will be held at Sacred Heart Church, 449 North Road, on Wednesday at 5:00 PM. A service to celebrate Fred’s life will be held on January 9th at Sacred Heart Church, 449 North Road, Waikiwi, Invercargill, commencing at 11:00 AM, followed by interment at the Eastern Cemetery. Livestream Please find a link to the livestream below https://vimeo.com/event/4823096 Dad, I said my goodbyes already, but I will never forget you. Now you can rest in peace with Mum forever. Love you to heaven and back. Catherine Fred sponsored my family's move to New Zealand from the Netherlands and was a good friend to Mum and Dad. We are forever grateful for this and the opportunities that followed. He will be fondly remembered. My condolences to Margaret and the rest of the clan. Marten Kooij Very sad that we are unable to attend the funeral but will watch the on the live stream. Many fond memories of Fred from my childhood and lots of holidays in Lawrence. Many laughs at the antics of my father and Fred during those years. Rest in peace. Patricia and Tony Yelavich Dear Uncle Fred, One of God's Characters that we always looked forward to seeing when we went to Lawrence as kids during the holidays. Always a cheery word and "leg-pull" to see us on our way and Dad (Charlie) particularly liked to have a catch-up. Quite a history there and am sure you will get a great 'welcome' from him. Love to Aunty Margaret and all of the Family, Rest well Uncle Fred and God Bless You, Ann McConachy (Gallagher) “Wet a line” up there my friend. I’ll miss you. Jim Davis and family Deepest sympathy to Aunty Margaret and all the family. I will remember Uncle Fred well, who always remembered me and always had an openhearted, kind and warm word to share. Sorry I can’t make the funeral in person but I’ll be on the livestream. Pauline Gallagher Robyn McDonald Will miss you, Fred. Our condolences to Margaret and family. Your optometrist, Daryl & Pirjo userTribute leaveMessage Share a photo Upload Photo Max File Size 15MB Tick the captcha Submit https://office88868.wixsite.com/distinctv002/obituaries/ferdinand-gerard-james-(-fred)/olde-olthof?skipRedirect=true&ssrOnly=true&extendedTimeout=true&debug=false

Obituaries I Distinct Funeral Services I Southland I NZ Leave a tribute View Service Sheet Jenkins Print Page Clarice Merle (Merle) Sunday, 2 August 1925 Born: Passed: Thursday, 16 March 2023 Merle passed away peacefully at Rowena Jackson Salisbury Wing, on Friday, March 17th in her 98th year. Much loved wife of Les*. Dearly loved Mum of Mike and Sue, and beloved Nana of Jess, and Ian. A family service will be held on Monday 20th of March. Our grateful thanks to all staff who cared for Merle over the years. Messages to jforce@orcon.net.nz Livestream Please find a link to the livestream below Dearest friend of Kath and Pat Menown. Rest peacefully Merle beside Les Kath and Pat Menown userTribute leaveMessage Share a photo Upload Photo Max File Size 15MB Tick the captcha Submit https://office88868.wixsite.com/distinctv002/obituaries/clarice-merle-(merle)/jenkins?skipRedirect=true&ssrOnly=true&extendedTimeout=true&debug=false

Obituaries I Distinct Funeral Services I Southland I NZ Leave a tribute View Service Sheet Shanks Print Page Mark Joseph Sunday, 3 November 1963 Born: Passed: Thursday, 14 January 2021 The oldest son of Andrea and Michael Shanks. Loved husband of Kelly. Dearly loved dad of Joseph. Brother to Shane, Coral, Phil, Paul, Michael, and Terry. A farewell for Mark will be held at the Crematorium on 18 January 2021 10:00 AM. Anyone wishing to catch up with the family afterwards can do so at 50 Waiou Cres, Invercargill. Messages to Kelly Shanks, 38 Bluff Road Invercargill. Livestream Please find a link to the livestream below Hi there, I was an old friend of Marks or shags as we called him, many many years ago - late 80s early 90's, in good old Invercargill. I remember him as an absolutely top bloke, who cared for everyone and always had a smile going. Champion of a man!!!! My heartfelt sympathies to his wife, son and all the Shanks family. Paul McStay Dear Kelly and Joseph, I am sad to hear Mark has passed away. I worked with him a lot over the 15 years I was at Alliance, he was a good guy who loved his family, having Joseph was such a proud day and I always enjoyed Mark talking his son he was such a proud dad. He will be greatly missed. Take care of yourself Kelly kind regards Paula Bull. Paula Bull userTribute leaveMessage Share a photo Upload Photo Max File Size 15MB Tick the captcha Submit https://office88868.wixsite.com/distinctv002/obituaries/mark-joseph/shanks?skipRedirect=true&ssrOnly=true&extendedTimeout=true&debug=false